How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?
Clearly, some people are single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others are single due to the circumstances of their lives. But the reality is that we hold more power over our romantic destiny than we often think. To a great degree, we create the world we live in, although we are rarely conscious of this process. We can, in fact, make a choice whether to see our fate through a victimized lens or choose to be goal-directed and take power over our lives. We can become aware of the myriad of ways we influence the reactions we get from others, even the negative reactions. So, the question for the single person looking for love is: what are the internal challenges I need to face?
I am officially the last single person in my friend group. How did this happen? It feels like a minute ago yesterday we were being rejected as of Rayaand now suddenly everyone is exploration for wedding venues upstate —except me. When I was younger, I took it for granted that my friends would always be available for hungover brunches and emergency threesomes. For case, for years now my friends after that I have spent summer weekends by a shared beach house on Animate Island.